Coupled, Single, or in the Office: What to do on Valentine’s Day

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Coupled, Single, or in the Office: What to do for Valentine's Day

It’s February and love is in the air! Or, well, maybe not. But either way—there’s no reason not to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Whether you’re coupled up, single, or just want to mingle with your pals, here’s how to make your day truly lovely!

 

On the Town

If You’re Attached

If you’re planning to hit the town with your honey this Valentine’s Day, plan ahead! Reservations can be hard to come by on the most popular dining-out day of the year, and even if you score one, keep an eye out for jacked-up menu prices. You can also check Groupon, LivingSocial, or other local sites for restaurant deals—just be sure to read the fine print and make sure they’re valid on V-Day.

Want something a little different than a table for two? Try reenacting your first date! Or, do something active outdoors, like ice skating followed by hot cocoa or taking a picnic up to a romantic view.

If You’re Unattached

If you’re unattached this year and don’t want to sit at home, gather a group of single friends and paint the town red (and pink)! Look online for singles parties or dinner deals—many restaurants and bars are offering special engagements for those without a Valentine. Or, try going on a blind date—find a cute guy online, suggest a fun outing on HowAboutWe, or get set up by a friend. Sure, it could be an expensive way to garner another nightmare date story, but, on the other hand, you might just get shot by Cupid’s arrow.

 

At Home

If You’re Attached

Want to avoid the crowds and have a little time alone this Valentine’s Day? Stay home with your sweetheart and cook a special dinner. Choose something romantic, like leg of lamb with truffle mashed potatoes or—if you’re really ambitious—lobster thermidor. For dessert, pop open a bottle of bubbly and serve chocolate-dipped strawberries or hot chocolate shots. (Hint: If you want to save a little cash, shop early—even supermarkets hike up the prices of popular Valentine’s dinner options.)

If You’re Unattached

Try something different than the girls’ night movie fest this year, and invite friends over a Valentine’s Day soirée! Ask everyone to bring an unattached friend of the opposite sex who isn’t already acquainted with your group—like a co-worker, cousin, or trainer at the gym. Serve cocktails like Bitter Crushes or Fevers, and pair with decadent appetizers, like hazelnut fried brie or truffle parmesan popcorn. Or, for a more interactive feast, make it a fondue party: Dip bread, grapes, apples, and veggies in a cheese fondue and fruit, cake, cookies, and pretzels in chocolate.

 

In the Office

If You’re Attached

If you have a significant other, you may find yourself spoiled with flowers and candy delivered to the office. But remember that Valentine’s Day can be a sensitive holiday, so play it cool when your single co-workers are around. There’s no need to announce how many dozens of roses you got at the morning staff meeting (but you could share your chocolate with everyone).

If You’re Unattached

If you’re single, plan a fun lunch with your colleagues to get out of the office for a bit—you may need a breather from the inevitable overwhelming displays of affection. Brush off the oversized teddy bear and box of chocolates your cubicle-mate just had delivered and get excited—if you haven’t yet met your one true love, that means you have something to look forward to.

 

Here’s to lots of love this Valentine’s Day! Enjoy!

 

Photo courtesy of Jenny Mealing.

About the Author

Veteran professional event planner and MBA, Emily Gladnick is currently the Owner and Lead Designer of San Diego-based Urban Garden Floral & Event Design. She lives in Encinitas, CA with her husband and two daughters. She loves whining and dining with her girlfriends, rainy days, and, of course, a well-planned party!

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