Disclaimer: The advice in this column is Fran Dorf's personal thoughts. It is not to be construed as a professional opinion. Fran recommends seeking the advice of a trained professional for any serious matter. Fran Dorf writes the "Just Ask Me" column at the Daily Muse. Fran is a psychotherapist-clinical social worker and author of three acclaimed novels. Her essays, poetry, and articles have appeared in anthologies, national periodicals, and literary journals, and she's working on a memoir. Fran also writes a blog, The Bruised Muse. In her spare time, she reads everything, rants about politics, Zumba dances, skis, plays tennis, travels, and plays with her grandchild, Maya.
This reader is trying to balance her desire to move in with her boyfriend and her parents’ traditional values and likely objections. Our advice columnist weighs in on how she can handle the situation.
This reader is in a tricky spot: she has her dream job and loves it—but it keeps her on the road, and away from her husband, 75% of the time. Our advice columnist weighs in on balancing the two loves in her life.
They’re engaged, she’s pregnant—and he wants to move away from their families. Our advice columnist weighs in on making tough decisions as a couple and hashing things out the right way.
This reader is facing a common quarter-life dilemma: What should he do with his life? Our advice columnist weighs in on figuring out what you love and finding your way.
Starting a business is a huge personal commitment, but it’s also a commitment for your spouse and family. So, what happens when they aren’t exactly thrilled about your entrepreneurial aspirations? Our advice columnist weighs in.
This aspiring journalist is excited about her career path, but frustrated by a friend that bashes the field every chance she gets. Our advice columnist weighs in on this tough situation.
This reader loves her boyfriend, but her family thinks she’s settling. What should she do? Turns out, there’s more to the situation than meets the eye. Our advice columnist shares her thoughts on this tough situation.
We’re always thrilled when our girlfriends find a new beau, right? Not if he’s a primetime jerk. Our advice columnist helps this good friend navigate the ugly truth of dealing with a friend’s mean boyfriend.
This start-up co-founder is on her way to the top, except she’s having to battle for a credible spot among her male counterparts. Our advice columnist helps her find her tipping point between success and putting up with sexism in the workplace.
His parents want a say in the wedding, but they don’t want to foot the bill. Read on for the words of wisdom our advice columnist has for the bride in this tricky situation.
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